Last year (2016) was the first year I did Vlogmas and during the process of filming myself every day, I learnt *a lot*... so much so I had an Epiphany, which I made a video about.
In the video I talk about my word of the year for 2016 and my word last year was "Me". I wanted to try and focus more on myself; on my health, my enjoyment, my fulfilment,
rather than others... which is what I always have done previously.
I specifically chose the word ME, rather than
"self-love" or "self-care" as I was formally diagnosed with ME earlier
in 2015 and I wanted to claim the word ME back for myself... rather than it just being this
label I had been given for the illness I
had been struggling with for the last few years.
After re-watching the video this
morning, I initially thought, "wow I never really moved onto to looking after me
much this year did I?". Did I let go
of anything?No, not really.Work is still the same, home life is still the
same, parental care is still the same, charity commitments are still the same, and I'm still
lacking in hobby time... so, seemingly, everything is still the same.
But then I remembered, in summer, on
good weather days, I started to carve out time to sit in the sun on the new
decking, I sat in the conservatory every now and then reading a book... not
often, not daily... but I did occasionally.I also watched all the Tennis tournaments.I love tennis but don't make the time to watch it,
this year I did, following Andy Murray entirely through the season.
I also spent
the whole year of going to Kings College Hospital for ME Treatment every two weeks and part of that treatment involved having psychotherapy,
which has been extremely eye opening for me. Since becoming ill with ME, I suffer from
extreme anxiety which has been very limiting and getting to understand that
better has been definitely an revelation for me.
So... as much as I didn't give up
work, get a cleaner and just make art every day... I definitely did started
focusing more on myself. So there was actually quite a bit of
forward momentum on that front!
But I still
have too much stuff on my plate, it seems I just can't be "not busy"!
So I've been thinking about my job, do I still want it?What does it give me?Yes, obviously I earn money from it, but some
months I've earnt more selling stuff on eBay than I have at work. And as I've
said previously, we, as a household, don't need the money... however I do like
to pay my way and have an independent income.
But there is
so much I still want to do and having a job keeps me anchored or committed to something that I'm not necessarily passionate about. So I went into work on the Wednesday before
Christmas and had a chat with my manager about it; they are such a lovely
company to work for and I think that's the reason I stay.He
said "but you're like family"... and I agree, we are like a family...so whatever I decide, that
factor alone makes the decision hard.
So what do I enjoy?Well...I enjoy making YouTube videos... because I love the interaction
with subscribers, the sharing of knowledge with others on the same journey as
myself. However, I
definitely don't to be a big youtuber because some YouTube viewers are just a bit too
judgemental.There are too many keyboard
warriors, spreading hate for no reason.I don't want to worry about being judged by strangers on the internet
who have dogs as their profile pictures and have never uploaded a video in their
life!
I mean look at me, I is what I is! I
don't wear makeup, I have crooked teeth, mad hair, a saggy jaw... I'm not here to compete with make-up gurus or 30
something housewife's with perfect hair, perfect teeth and perfect homes!I don't need to be told I have too much stuff
(not as much as others buster!) or that I "should get my teeth
fixed". I mean, blimey, I'm
50 this year... if I haven't paid to have perfectly straight fake teeth by
now... I doubt I'm going to bother.Life
is too short for me to worry about looking perfect all the time and I don't want
to deal with people telling me that I should be worried about those things.
I'm just living my life and sharing
it as I go, this is as real as it gets.I'm not a master of anything, I don't profess to know how to do anything...
I'm just sharing my journey. The reason I
started making my decluttering videos because I wanted to be held accountable...
and it seems to work.Knowing I have to
make a video about the next phase of decluttering, keeps me motivated to move
onto the next phase of decluttering!
Anyway... I've rambled too much,
this post is supposed to be about my goals for 2017 and my word of the year. I've been
choosing a word of the year since 2011, when my word was "Balance" as
back then I was struggling with balancing work and homelife. My word for 2015 was Simplify as I started to
strip back on consumerism and also on focus more on less processed, whole foods.
And so what it my word for this
year?In November I really thought my
word of the year was going to be "Focus" because I wanted to carry
over the self-care part of last years word ...but Focus on it more.I also wanted to focus on other pursuits, be
more mindful, more aware... and focus seemed to encompass everything.But for some reason the word never stuck, it
never felt right.
And then in
early December, as I was having my last therapy session of the year, my word
hit me like a ton of bricks... I'd been saying it for the last few weeks about
various things and I realised it was the word I wanted to take me through 2017.
For the last few years I have been
drifting through life; working too hard, consuming to much, eating, sleeping, being
distracted by life, going to bed and getting up the next day, rinse and
repeat.Following trends, buying stuff
because that's what we are told to do, having a craft room full of stuff
because that's what crafters do, buying books I see advertised and leaving the
unread, following along like a consumeristic sheep.
I remember
when the urge to break the cycle came, it was early in the year, when I was
making a "look how many planners I have" video.I was sickened by my own consumerism.I had bought into the "it's okay to have
20 planners because you swap them out like handbags" theory... but its not
really ok is it? It's unnecessary.I
didn't have that many handbags!
Having 20 planners does not add
value to my life.And remember I'm
talking about me here, not you, not your collection of planners... your collection
may add value to you life but for me, it was the straw that broke the camel's
back, the realisation that I had been buying stuff I didn't really need...
probably for the last 8+ years or so... really since I had become ill and my
ability to travel had been limited.I
had been keeping myself distracted with stuff... probably to fill a void.
And so I woke
up.And I realised that my house was full
of crap from clearing out my in-law's house in 2009, 2010 and again in 2015 and I
also had a craft room packed to the gunnels of stuff that I had been collecting for
the last 10+ years, because that's what all my crafter friends did too.
And once I was awake... I was
awake!I could see the wood for the
trees, I could see what had value and what did not, I could see what I wanted
in my life and what I did not.And I was
falling over myself to clear the clutter.
I started
with the 30 bags in 30 days and it wasn't enough, more and more stuff needed to
go. My eyes were open I could see the stuff that had been pushed in every
corner, piled on shelves and hidden inside cupboards for the last 15 years and
I wanted it all gone!Why on earth had we
kept some of these things?
With 15 years worth of stuff in the
house I had to rein myself in, I focused on the craft room because I knew that
once that room was done, I'd be able to spend time in there and actually enjoy
the things I chose to keep. And that's
where I am today... sitting in my gorgeous craft room and looking forward to
using it in 2017 and making this new Epiphany video for 2017.
I am awake and it's an amazing feeling!
So what can
you expect from me in 2017?
More decluttering videos for
sure.I have a garage and a attic full
of crap and they need to be cleared out before the end of March.I am scared of sharing the attic with you as
it is an embarrassing hidey-hole of crap... but if I want to continue to use
youtube as my accountability partner, then I must swallow the embarrasment and
take the camera up there.No judging!
I will hopefully
also get to make more art and share more art videos... but then I said that
last year too, so lets see what happens!
One thing you won't see from me is
haul videos. I won't be hauling anything, I've deciding to do a no spend for
January, February and March and I will continue to sell things both on Facebook
and eBay.On that note, and after
requests, I may start a Facebook group where my craft and planner items will be
listed for sale.
And that's
about it.My goals for 2017 are to
continue to be awake and enjoy the meaningful things in life! Happy New
Year to you all!
Just like the Neverending Story (ahah ahahah ahahah) my art and craft book declutter goes on and on and on and on! Today I go through my Children's Drawing Books and Colouring Books.
Now... I was into colouring before it was all the rage, so the colouring books include some children's colouring books and some of the more recent adult colouring books too.
My copy of the Secret Garden Colouring book was purchased from Cass Art in London. I absolutely love that shop and highly recommend a visit if you are in London... well that's if you love arty painty supplies! They also now have an online store, which (amazingly) they still sell at the same great prices they do in store!
Oh... and there's also another giveaway! This time with two prizes:
Prize 1: How to Draw 101 Fairies by Dan Green Prize 2: A Doodle Activity Pad and Colouring Book
Just a short video today, mainly because I forgot about the calligraphy books stashed under the desk, so decided to make this video just about my calligraphy books.
...and it goes on! After drowning in a sea of books for a week or so, I move onto to sorting through my Drawing, Watercolour and General Painting Books.... and it gives me the chance to do a giveaway.... finally!
I wanted to do a giveaway when I reached 1000 YouTube subscribers, but that crept up on me and I missed the opportunity...so here's my chance to make up for that! The prize is the "Watercolour in 10 Steps" Book by Patricia Seligman
Decluttering Art Journaling, Collage and Mixed Media Books!
And the Great Craftroom Declutter continues as I go through my books Konmari style and keep only those I love. This video covers all my Art Journaling, Collage and Mixed Media Books.
The Kelly Rae Roberts Book I Mentioned (and have just rebought!) was called
"Taking Flight: Inspiration and Techniques to Give Your Creative Spirit Wings"
UK: http://amzn.to/2cofZGR
USA: http://amzn.to/2c1seIu
Decluttering my Scrapbooking Books... Konmari style!
The Great Craftroom Declutter continues as I go through my books Konmari style and keep only those I love. I also share bag 2 of my 30 Bags in 30 Days Challenge
It's time for a change! Finally! We've lived in this house for 16 years now... 16 YEARS!... where did that time go? I remember how keen we were when we first moved in; ripping up carpets, replacing fireplaces, having double glazing fitted, tiling the kitchen floor, boarding the eaves of the loft, painting the lounge, the hallway, the upper landing, the stairs... all while both working full time (and some!).
And then we stopped. Why? Did we stagnate? Did our circumstances change? Probably yes to both of those... but in all reality I'm finding it hard to remember why we went from pouring lots of energy into making the house "ours" to settling with where it was.
Maybe its because the next steps were all "big ones"... you know like removing water tanks, playing with water pipes... big scary things that can go wrong! Actually I seem to remember the last thing we had done was the double glazing... and my what a nightmare that was! I think that's when we become scared of having more "big stuff" done!
But now its time... time to make things how we want them... and I'm starting with my playroom...ahem...I mean art room/craft room/scrapbooking room, whatever you want to call it!
I'm going to share my whole craft room update and decluttering journey on YouTube (obviously!) and to begin... here's the before tour....
My Valentines Day presents from hubs... A new kettle (I wanted one, honestly!), a Lola Rose Queensbury Bracelet and a Mini Swiss Army Knife in the pattern "blob"
Filofax Friday | Planner Haul with Filofax, Kikki-K and Dokibook
It's Filofax Friday once again! Join me as I share a Planner Haul/unboxing, including the Kikki-K Wellness Planner.
I also compare a Large Kikki-K, Large Dokibook and an A5 Filofax, line up and stroke a plethora of gorgeous teal coloured planners and compare a number of Filofax planners.
If you like watching 35 minutes of planner lushness... grab a cuppa!
Filofax Friday | My Filofax Journey | 20 Years of Planners!
Join me as I share my Planner History! After 20 years plus of using Filofaxes and Planners, I thought I'd share the ones that have taken me through the last 20 years (ad that I can still find!)
It's Filofax Friday! Well kinda. I'm too poorly sick to edit the video... but as luck would have it my Kikki.K order arrived today as I was about to retire to my bed for the day, so I filmed this quick haul.
Unedited, direct to camera, apologies for the polythene rattling! Enjoy!
Happy New Year! We made it and...phew...Its over! Vlogmas that is!
I now have massive kudos for daily vloggers... well those that work, are trying to deal with late running renovations, a poorly family and the large and looming threat of Christmas!
Finding the time to download the footage, edit the video and upload the video to YouTube after some long days was hard... which is probably why I missed a few days! ;)
If you want to see the whole lot from beginning to end, here's a link to my Vlogmas Playlist
I learnt *a lot* during this period of video myself... and am about to make a video on what I learnt, my goals for 2016 and my word of the year. Hopefully I'll have that video up tomorrow!
What is Vlogmas I hear you ask? Well its that special time of year when YouTubers vlog ("video Blog") every day in December in the lead up to Christmas... sort of like a video advent calendar, if you like!
I've enjoyed watching various YouTubers Vlogmases over the last 3 or 4 years and thought it looked like fun......so... I've decided to take part in Vlogmas this year!
I've never made any DITL (Day in the Life) videos before, but...well... I want to see what happens in December. I have just finished editing yesterday's video, and that's just about to be uploaded... its 40min! Not sure I'll jibber jabber that much in the other videos! I'm still learning remember, I'm a fledgling vlogger lol!
I'm hoping my Vlogmas will be half arty/crafty and half my real life. Just depends which one gets precedence really! With all that's going on at the moment, I'm not sure there will be time for much Art and Craft!
Vlog | Meeting Some of the US Art Gang in Docklands
Oooo the excitement when I heard some of the US Art Gang were coming over to the UK! Although they were only going to be in London for one and half days, I had to make the effort to meet up with them. However, their one full and free day in London was a day that I had a hospital visit booked! Dang!
However, as luck would have it, the hotel the girls were staying in was just 20 minutes up the road in Docklands, so on Sunday I popped into Docklands to meet the lovely Happy Diane and the ScrappyCamper Sisters
So it looks like I might have got the challenge bug! I found a great little challenge on the Artful Times blog hosted by Neet and Von, and just had to join in.
Challenge 21 is all about creating an ATC based on Time... and so here is mine!
I started by using Alcohol Inks on glossy card and then used blending solution through a stencil to create a ghost clock image. I then stamped off the edges of the card using a Tim Holtz clock stamp and Ranger Archival Ink in Coffee and also inked the edges of the card.
I finished the ATC with a printed and inked phrase and added Tim Holtz metal clock hands to the ghostly clock image.
Thanks for the challenge Neet and Von look forward to seeing what everyone creates!